- Behavioral Health, Infectious DiseaseGeneral Page Tier 3BlogAs families continue to adjust to the “new normal” of the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic, both parents and children may feel anxiety and fear. The boundaries between work, school and home have gotten fuzzy, often leading to emotional burnout. It’s important to remember this whole situation is new for everyone. There is no right way to get everything done. With so much change and uncertainty, it’s more important than ever for parents to take care of their mental health so they can continue to laugh, have fun and appreciate every family moment. Here are some tips on how to stay positive while juggling a full schedule. Prioritize self-care: There will be a lot of unknowns this year, so it’s important to remain calm and remember to breathe when dealing with the unexpected. Each day, take time to do at least one thing that’s just for you. That could mean taking a few minutes in the morning before everyone wakes up to enjoy the quiet, mediate, write in a journal, read a book or watch your favorite television show. Be flexible: Keep an open mind, especially when it comes to virtual learning. If you don’t stress over changes, your child will be less likely to stress. Have a daily routine: While flexibility is key, it’s still important for parents to set and maintain a daily routine during the hours that school is not is in session. Even if the plan needs to change, having a road map for your day will make it more manageable. Set boundaries: If possible, have separate spaces for work, school and relaxation. No parent wants to feel like they are living at work, and no child wants to feel like they are living at school. Having designated spaces for each part of your life will make it easier for everyone to stay focused when they need to focus, and relax when it’s time to relax. Stay in the loop: Don’t be afraid to communicate with your child’s teacher about how they are doing in school. Teachers can offer amazing tips on how your child can stay engaged with school virtually. Staying informed will help both you and your child be less anxious. Have a support system: Ask for help. Many parents all over the country are trying to work, take care of their households, and make sure their children are doing well with virtual learning. It’s not easy, and some days, the whole family may need one big cry and one big hug. Everyone is in this together. Parents set the tone for how children will respond to a virtual learning experience. The calmer and more positive you are, the more excited your child will be about jumping into that virtual school day. Author Jennifer Williams, MA, LPC, LCPC, is a mental health professional at Anne Arundel Medical Group (AAMG) Mental Health Specialists, located in Annapolis. To reach her, call 410-573-9000.
- Behavioral Health, Pediatrics, Infectious DiseaseGeneral Page Tier 3BlogThe coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic has been particularly hard for kids. When school turned virtual last spring, students lost daily contact with friends and teachers. Many students may feel disconnected from school since they are at home. Or they feel isolated without their classmates around. Like many of us, they might be feeling like there are no boundaries between home life and school life. Despite these challenges, it is possible to remain confident and positive. Even if the school year looks different. Here are a few tips to help boost your child’s mental health while attending virtual school. Follow a daily routine: Sticking to a schedule for school days is important. Getting a good night’s sleep is necessary for mental health. Make sure your child goes to bed at the same time every night and wake up at the same time every morning, leaving enough time to go through a regular morning routine. That may include taking a shower, brushing teeth, changing out of pajamas and eating breakfast. Talk to friends: Kids should talk with friends during breaks in the day as they normally would. FaceTime or set up a Zoom chat during lunch with friends. Try to avoid mid-day naps during break periods. Make sure your child continues to talk to friends after school and on weekends to avoid feeling disconnected. Go outside: Set aside time to have your child go outside at least once during the school day. If they start to feel sad, anxious, or frustrated, have them step away from the computer and go outside to walk, run or play. Have them try a few slow deep breaths to regulate their body and calm their heart rate so they can go on with the rest of the day. Have a designated classroom space: No one wants to feel like they are at school all the time. If possible, have a designated space that is just for schoolwork. Go to that room once the school day starts, and leave when it’s over. This will help your child draw boundaries between school and relaxation time. Make time for laughter and fun: We’re all going through something new and uncertain. Mistakes will happen, and that’s OK. It’s still important to make time for fun with friends and teachers, and maybe even start a new hobby. More fun means less stress. If your child is feeling overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to reach out for support whenever necessary. Don’t feel like you are expected to do everything alone. With a positive attitude and positive thoughts, you and your child can have a great school year. Author Jennifer Williams, MA, LPC, LCPC, is a mental health professional at Anne Arundel Medical Group (AAMG) Mental Health Specialists, located in Annapolis. To reach her, call 410-573-9000.
- Men's Health, Weight Loss, Women's HealthGeneral Page Tier 3BlogThe majority of our decisions about what to eat are on autopilot and often happen without us even thinking about them. Did you know that when you decide to change your diet, over 200 food-related decisions per day are impacted? From eating out to grocery shopping, all of these decisions are well rehearsed. On average, a grocery store will carry over 39,000 different items. Though variety is considered the ‘spice of life,’ the vast amount of food variety plays a role in overconsumption in our society. Research on food variety and its effects is emerging. In one interesting experiment done with M&M’s candy, researchers wanted to see what would happen if they gave moviegoers more color choices. They found that those who were given 10 different colors ate 43 percent more than those given the same amount of M&M’s in seven colors. READ MORE: What’s for dinner? New school year brings new pace of life You make fewer decisions over the course of the day when you automate your healthy choices , which helps you make it easier to choose healthier options. One way to eat healthier is to automate by meal planning. Too often, we let convenience, busy schedules and mindless eating derail our best intentions. Willpower is a resource that gets used up as the day goes on. The more decisions you have to make, the less willpower you have by the end of the day. If you automate your healthy choices, you make fewer decisions over the course of the day, which makes it easier to choose healthier options later in the day – a prime time for overdoing it. You are ahead of the game because you can choose something automatically instead of trying to use willpower. Here is a helpful guideline on how to automate by meal prepping: Eat the same breakfast and lunch every day. At least the template should be similar – a protein, fruit, vegetable and milk or starch. For breakfast, you could have oatmeal with fruit or a veggie omelet and fruit. For lunch, you could warm up some soup or a sandwich and pair it with some fruit. Alternatively, you could have some leftover chicken and green vegetables with seasonal fruit. You can mix things up at dinner and use the remaining willpower. Make meal planning and grocery shopping a given. Pick a block of time for planning your meals (perhaps in the car when commuting or transporting kids to activities) and then make your grocery list. Try to shop and prepare meals about the same time every week so it becomes part of your routine. Prep food ahead of time. Sundays are usually down days, which leaves time to tackle the preparation. If you really dislike cooking or prepping, consider purchasing prepared foods that fill the bill, such as already cooked chicken breast or various vegetable salads. Freeze meals. While prepping on Sundays, also pull out the crock-pot and make chili, a hearty soup, spaghetti sauce, lentil stew, etc. This will help you freeze and fill any unexpected gaps. Find foods you enjoy and that fit in the five food groups to slowly build a repertoire of satisfying meals. The effort in the beginning will be more time consuming, but the payoff will be worth the effort and repetition leads to balanced, healthy meals. Enjoy! Authors Ann Caldwell and Maureen Shackelford are nutritionists and registered dietitians at Anne Arundel Medical Center. To reach them, call 443-481-5555. Originally published July 8, 2019. Last updated Sept. 2, 2020.
- Behavioral Health, Infectious DiseaseGeneral Page Tier 3BlogThe coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic has changed our lives in ways we never could have expected. For many people, these changes have been difficult. Now more than ever, it is important to reach out for help if you are beginning to suffer mentally and emotionally. Here is what we want you to know. Support groups can help For people already dealing with mental health concerns, isolation has been one of the hardest parts of the pandemic. Humans are social creatures. Many who had relied on community resources for support, such as senior centers, day programs, and wellness centers, were left in vulnerable positions when those gathering places closed. Many people are also experiencing grief as a result of the pandemic, even if they haven’t lost anyone due to COVID-19. Some people may have flare ups of depression and anxiety as a result. People may even develop new cases of depression and anxiety, even if this wasn’t previously an issue. Mental health support groups can be a huge help. It’s comforting to know that someone else is going through the same thing you are, that you are not alone. They also give you the opportunity to learn from others. And because many groups are virtual due to the pandemic, it’s easy to log on from whatever device you choose. Anne Arundel Medical Center’s (AAMC) COVID-19 Loss and Grief Support Group is one of those groups. Sessions are held via Zoom and are for anyone affected by the virus. The group, led by AAMC’s Division of Mental Health and Substance Abuse, meets Wednesdays from 5-6:30 pm. To join, email [email protected]. Support for Children Keep in mind that these are hard times for our kids, too. Their lives – including school routines, activities and gatherings with friends – look completely different today than they did a year ago. A recent study by the American Psychological Association found that 71% of parents worry about the effect the pandemic has had on their children’s social skills. Meanwhile, 55% of parents say their children have been acting out more since the pandemic started. Kids thrive on structure. This is important to remember as the school year begins and many are enrolled in online classes. Build breaks into their schedules and make sure they are getting outside. A little fresh air and sunshine can do wonders. We encourage parents to make time to talk to their kids and find out how they are coping. Even if you don’t have a lot of extra time these days, a five-minute conversation can make a difference. Pay attention to changes in their eating and sleeping habits and call your doctor with concerns. AAMC is also working on setting up a COVID-19 support group for teens. To learn more, email [email protected]. But don’t forget, parents need to look out for their own mental health, too. You can’t take care of anyone else if you aren’t first taking care of yourself. We are safe, ready and open If you or someone you love is experiencing mental health issues, whether it’s because of COVID-19 or something else, please don’t hesitate to seek help. Early in the pandemic, we set up telehealth services for patients, allowing them to get care from the comfort of their homes. AAMC’s Psychiatric Day Hospital along with our outpatient clinics offer both in-person and online services. Our hospital, including our Emergency Department, Pathways and the J. Kent McNew Family Medical Center, all have procedures in place to protect against the spread of COVID-19. We are safe, ready and open for you. There is always help, and there is always hope. Authors Eric Anderson, MD, FAPA, is the medical director of the J. Kent McNew Family Medical Center. Cindy Radovic, MA, BSN-BC, is clinical director of Emergency and Inpatient Mental Health Services at Anne Arundel Medical Center.
- Primary Care, Weight Loss, Wellness, UncategorizedGeneral Page Tier 3BlogEvery year, there’s no shortage of stories exploring all the ways you can get healthier. Exercise and weight loss generally top the list of resolutions people set for themselves as the calendar year turns over, but research shows that around 80% of them are dropped by February. Here are five things you can do to increase your chances of setting an attainable health goal this year — and sticking with it. 1. Determine your “why” You may never have heard of a “why” statement, but you’ve probably heard of company mission statements. (Consider JetBlue’s widely cited credo: “To inspire humanity — both in the air and on the ground.”) A personal “why” statement is essentially the same thing. It simply answers the question of why you’re doing whatever it is you’re doing. To make something a habit, you first have to understand why you’re doing it. Why does a certain goal mean something to you? It can’t be something you’re doing just because someone else is doing it or because you think you should. For instance, if a doctor tells you to eat better and lose weight because it’s good for your health, will that compel you to work toward that goal? How about if you know that by eating better and losing weight you’ll be able to run around and play with your grandchildren? Now that’s a great “why.” For every goal you want to accomplish in 2022, make sure you first establish your reason. It’s what inspires you to take action. 2. Be specific When you’re planning healthy changes, it can be hard not to reach for the moon. But generic goals, like “I’m going to exercise more this year” or “I’m going to eat better,” rarely work because they lack focus. Instead, set small, measurable milestones to chart your progress to a larger goal. For instance, you could plan to cook one more meal at home a week than you currently do. That small change could help you eat healthier overall. Not to mention save you money on takeout. If you want to exercise more and think getting into running could be a good way to do it, you could sign up for a 5K race that’s six months away. Suddenly, you have a large goal to reach, but plenty of time to reach it. To get started, you could set small goals to reach the larger goal. First, focus on running a mile, then increase your distance to two miles and, finally, to three. By breaking down a lofty goal into smaller, more manageable chunks, you’re able to see improvement and celebrate accomplishments along the way. 3. Focus on the journey Health is about the journey, not the destination. Just as you shouldn’t focus on vague or overly ambitious goals, you should celebrate small wins. Maybe you went to bed 15 minutes earlier every night this week as a small step toward a long-term goal of getting more sleep. That’s an accomplishment. Health is a lifestyle. It’s not something you achieve and then leave behind. If you’re working toward regularly cutting a certain number of calories from your diet, for example, you wouldn’t abruptly wipe your hands of it the first time you reached your goal. Health is something you continually have to work at to make it a lifestyle. 4. Make movement count Sure, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services recommends 150 minutes a week of moderate-intensity activity, but remember, some activity is always better than no activity. Just start with a five-minute walk if you don’t have much time. But look for ways to add movement to your days. Maybe you take the steps instead of the elevator. Maybe you park on the far side of the parking lot when you go to the grocery store. Maybe you skip that after-dinner glass of wine and take the dog for a 20-minute walk instead. If you’re mindful of getting in movement, it will become intentional. Plus, the health benefits of movement are numerous. Physical activity can help: Boost your mood and improve your sleep Lower your risk of heart disease and certain cancers Help manage diabetes and high blood pressure 5. Practice gratitude Be grateful for what you have instead of jealous of what you don’t. Gratitude helps reduce stress, which can lead to chronic inflammation and an increased risk of certain conditions like heart disease and diabetes when long-lasting. Being able to cope with stress to reduce these ill effects is why self-care is so important. Prioritize time for yourself. Take a walk to clear your head or add a lavender-scented candle to your desk. Filling your bucket so you’re mentally and physically strong enough to tackle all those goals you’ve set for yourself is crucial. But be kind to yourself if you fall short of achieving a goal. There aren’t any hard-and-fast deadlines for healthy habits. Be grateful for the opportunity to try, try again. Authors Stefanie Osterloh, CRNP, is a family nurse practitioner with Luminis Health Primary Care in Crofton, Md.
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